I am at a point in my life where I am engaged to a wonderful man, and between the two of us, we have 4 children. I have recently realized that I spend most of my waking hours trying to do everything for everyone, trying to be "Wonder Woman". This realization has me struggling with how to say "No" to the unnecessary things and to just focus on the really important stuff. I still want to do everything so everyone is happy, including me.
Thursday, August 23, 2012
Simply Exhausted!
I know I am not the only woman / mother who feels this way. I don't know if it is expectations I set on myself, or those set by society. As a woman / mother who works full time, goes to school and participates in my children's activities, I am exhausted! My problem...I haven't really learned yet how to say "no". When my daughter's Girl Scout troop needed a new leader..yup, you guessed it, I volunteered. When my son's Boy Scout troop asked me to be on their council, yup, again, I said yes. In my justification, it's for my kids who are only young once and I want to set good examples for them. I want to know in my heart that I have done everything I can to be a good role model for both of my kids, regardless of what it does to me emotionally and physically. I now understand why I walk around all day talking to myself....so I don't forget anything. It gets so crazy that today I got our dinner ready ahead of time (so proud of myself) and put it in the Crock Pot...and then halfway here on my way to work, I realized I forgot to turn it on! Argh....Oh well, tomorrow is another day. Be well and thanks for reading :-D
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